Dominatrix Valeska Boots

The past 7 months have been difficult on everyone, this I acknowledge whole heartedly, and now with lockdown 2.0 here we are reminded that this isn’t going away anytime soon. As a real time Dominatrix My passion and livelihood centers around face to face interactions and real time sessions. That is where I get My kicks, looking into a submissive’s eyes and knowing exactly what buttons to push to make them Mine, is where I belong. Unfortunately, nowadays society has a phobia about being in the presence of other people (and rightly so!) however, that doesn’t make one’s ambitions and desires go away. 

 

So how does one quell the need for flesh or to hear another person’s whimper? What is one to do? As My good friend Ms Evilyne says, adapt or die. There are LOTS of online options and honestly we have become more and more of a society (globally and locally) that can access anything they want at any time they want with just a touch of a button. Horny and Kinky? We have the solution for that with no human interaction! Pandemic aside, this seems to be where many get their kink from and I suspect it will continue to grow. Bringing ones brand more to the online forefront seems to be the way to go, I now have a newsletter, continually adding to my clipstores, and am embracing and putting a lot of time and effort into my membership sites OnlyFans and AVNStars

 

 

Nowadays, there are so many elements and things that must be functional to keep one’s Dominatrix brand successful. The pandemic has taught Me this lesson even more so. It is incredible to witness what some Women have accomplished to make their brand successful. Yes, sure as a consumer you may feel that you are spending a lot of your hard earned money to indulge in you kink, but your Mistress has put thousands of hours to get Herself to the magnificence that she currently is before you. Some Women excel in the online sphere and I applaud them, but for Me talking to a camera doesn’t even come close to the interaction a Dominant has with a submissive face to face. And the one thing I have learnt over the years is that playing in a dungeon with My victim(s) is My true love. Nonetheless, I need THIS kink in My life so one must alter their business plan and model if they want to succeed and I am beginning to embrace it, though also dragging My heels. 

 

Through My membership sites I have developed some truly lovely D/s dynamics and it has aided with Me maintaining ones that I already had, though were not able to see them face to face due to the pandemic. And I am honestly truly grateful for this option to alter My business and I can see Myself growing as an online brand. Though maintaining membership sites are extremely time consuming I am able to take advantage of how flexible it is when I choose to sit down and ‘do the work’. As I have experienced with filming for My clipstores, I do truly enjoy the artistry that comes about when making content, I am finding a new love for it with different types of contect. So though I am not doing what brought Me to this profession as much as I want to be, I have options, I am learning a lot, I am growing as a brand and also look forward to seeing what the FemDom world will develop into in time.